Just One Thing

 Will someone...ANYONE...please tell me exactly how same-sex marriage damages my family?  Or any one's family?

If my friend and her girl friend are allowed to marry what's going to happen?  Will that union cause Chief and I to divorce, will my children start making meth?  I can't think of anything that destroys families...except the members themselves.

For military families this may mean living next to another family with two moms (or dads)?  GASP!!  Because that is way worse than the parents across the street that neglect their children, or the ones that party every weekend?  Not that same-sex marriages dont' have the same issues...they do, but that's the point, isn't it?

To me it's a lot like blaming the other woman (or man) or porn, or gambling...or whatever.  Instead of examining what's happening in that relationship or to a spouse.

I'm not an expert, but I can think of only one thing that can destroy my family:  us, me and Chief  That's what marriage is, right? Commitment, not to society, but to each other.